Using the Sportsheets Sex & Mischief Cougar Flogger is easy. Just hold the faux leather - wrapped handle firmly. You can start with gentle strokes using the soft faux fur falls to get your partner used to the sensation. As you both get more comfortable, you can switch to the faux leather falls for a more intense experience. When using it, always communicate with your partner to ensure their comfort and enjoyment. Before using, check the flogger for any signs of damage. After use, clean it with a mild soap and warm water, then let it air - dry. Store it in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight to maintain its quality.