Using the Calexotics Magical Pretty Little Wands Vibrating Massager - The Charmer is super easy. First, make sure it's fully charged. You can use the provided USB charging cable to charge it for 2.5 hours. Once it's charged, press the easy - touch button to start and control the vibration intensity. You have 10 speeds to choose from, so find the one that suits you best. The massager has a flexible body, so you can bend it and position it in different ways, whether you're using it alone or with a partner. When you're done using it, make sure to turn it off. Since it's waterproof, you can rinse it under water to clean it. Just use a mild soap if needed. Remember to lock it using the travel lock function when you're traveling to avoid accidental activation. And don't worry about losing your favorite setting, as the memory chip will resume from the last function used when you turn it back on.