Using the Tantus Trip 2 Tawse Spanking Paddle is easy. Hold it firmly by the handle and gently start with light taps to get a feel for the impact. As you get more comfortable, you can increase the force for a more intense experience. Remember, communication with your partner is key to ensure everyone is comfortable. When it comes to maintenance, simply wash the paddle with mild soap and warm water after each use. Then dry it thoroughly to keep it in good condition. Store it in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. And always check the paddle for any signs of wear and tear before using it again.