Using this Strap On Me dildo is a piece of cake. First, find a clean and smooth surface if you want to use the suction cup base for hands - free play. Press the base firmly against the surface until it sticks. Then, you can start enjoying the lifelike sensations it offers. When you're done, rinse it under warm water with mild soap. Make sure to dry it thoroughly before storing it in a cool, dry place. Avoid using it with silicone - based lubricants as they can damage the silicone material of the dildo. Also, check the suction cup regularly for any signs of wear and tear to ensure it remains safe and effective for use.