Using the Pipedream King Cock Elite 10 - Inch Silicone Dildo with Light is easy. First, if you want to use it with a surface, firmly press the suction cup on a flat and clean surface to ensure it sticks well. You can also attach it to a strap - on harness or a body dock for different experiences. When using it, make sure to use a good quality water - based lubricant to enhance the pleasure and reduce any discomfort. As for maintenance, after each use, wash the dildo with warm water and mild soap. Make sure to dry it completely before storing it in a cool and dry place. Avoid using harsh chemicals or solvents as they can damage the silicone. Also, keep it away from sharp objects to prevent scratches. With proper care, this dildo will serve you well for a long time.