Using this dildo is easy. First, if you're planning to use the suction cup, find a smooth, flat surface like a bathtub or a wall and press the suction cup firmly onto it to create a secure hold. For hands - free play, attach it to a Vac - U - Lock or O - Ring harness. When using it solo, just hold it and enjoy the textured veins and realistic feel. Remember to use plenty of water - based lubricant to enhance your experience. After use, clean it with mild soap and warm water. Make sure to dry it thoroughly before storing it in the included silk pouch. Keep it away from sharp objects and direct sunlight to maintain its quality. Also, since it's phthalate - free and body - safe, you don't have to worry about any harmful chemicals, but always follow your comfort level and have fun.