Using this dildo is a breeze. First, find a smooth surface like a bathtub or a tabletop and firmly press the suction cup base onto it to make sure it's secure. You can also use it with a harness for different positions. Before use, it's a good idea to add some water - based lubricant for a more comfortable experience. When you're done, clean it with warm water and mild soap. Make sure to dry it thoroughly before storing it in a cool, dry place. Don't use oil - based lubricants as they can damage the TPE material. And always check the suction cup and the whole dildo for any signs of wear and tear before each use.