Using the Sportsheets Cougar - themed Day Collar is easy. First, adjust the collar to fit your neck comfortably within the 15 - 17 inches range. You can use the adjustable part to get the perfect fit. For some fun, you can give the dangling ring a gentle tug or attach a leash to it during your intimate moments. When it comes to maintenance, keep it away from sharp objects to avoid scratching the faux leather and gold hardware. You can clean it with a soft, damp cloth to keep it looking good. As for safety, always make sure the collar isn't too tight around your neck. If you're using the fixed chain for faux - choking play, be extra careful and communicate clearly with your partner. This collar is for adult use only, so keep it out of reach of children.