Using the Calexotics Blue Cheeky Anal Plugs is easy. First, choose the size that suits you best. Apply a water - based lubricant to the plug and the area of use. Place the plug gently and slowly, letting your body adjust. The suction cup can be attached to a flat surface for hands - free play. When you're done, clean the plug with warm water and mild soap. Make sure it's completely dry before storing it in a cool, dry place. Don't use oil - based lubricants as they can damage the silicone. And always listen to your body; if it doesn't feel right, stop using the plug.